tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4209129785647063879.post1513190798480318201..comments2023-09-11T11:27:08.538-04:00Comments on Worth Mentioning: You only have one of youSusan Bonifanthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05889354888091500881noreply@blogger.comBlogger14125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4209129785647063879.post-21832027155244392092017-03-28T06:30:58.406-04:002017-03-28T06:30:58.406-04:00Once I read the advice to talk back to them and I ...Once I read the advice to talk back to them and I thought, "I'm not going to do that," but then I did, and I still do. I introduced my inner critic to my inner therapist and it seemed to help.Susan Bonifanthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05889354888091500881noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4209129785647063879.post-40568673934041236002017-03-28T06:24:29.715-04:002017-03-28T06:24:29.715-04:00A while back, I started thinking of inner critics ...A while back, I started thinking of inner critics as the mean girls in elementary school. Every school has them, they can ruin your day, but sooner or later, you just ignore them without even trying. Good for you, for being there.Susan Bonifanthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05889354888091500881noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4209129785647063879.post-47248541294353310172017-03-28T06:20:49.848-04:002017-03-28T06:20:49.848-04:00Oh, thank you, I love to think it helped. Tough to...Oh, thank you, I love to think it helped. Tough to turn that engine over on Monday, I agree.Susan Bonifanthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05889354888091500881noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4209129785647063879.post-40244017251687237652017-03-28T06:19:59.251-04:002017-03-28T06:19:59.251-04:00Hi Kathleen! Thank you, and I might steal that lin...Hi Kathleen! Thank you, and I might steal that line of yours.Susan Bonifanthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05889354888091500881noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4209129785647063879.post-76812923219588350592017-03-27T19:07:33.295-04:002017-03-27T19:07:33.295-04:00I am guilty of listening to much. Great reminder t...I am guilty of listening to much. Great reminder to tell them to shut up!Renahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14882680189860873105noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4209129785647063879.post-3875573082085131942017-03-27T18:28:36.333-04:002017-03-27T18:28:36.333-04:00A great reminder to start the week. That inner cri...A great reminder to start the week. That inner critic can be soul destroying but as I get older I think I am actually loving myself and who I am more each day.<br />SUe from Sizzling Towards 60 & BeyondSue from Sizzling Towards 60 & Beyondhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15418770845484399102noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4209129785647063879.post-28150789731824263312017-03-27T16:45:23.790-04:002017-03-27T16:45:23.790-04:00Ellen said it best. This was a helpful re-set to m...Ellen said it best. This was a helpful re-set to my Monday. Thank you, Brenda1010ParkPlacehttp://www.1010parkplace.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4209129785647063879.post-74468629802873510152017-03-27T15:43:16.359-04:002017-03-27T15:43:16.359-04:00Thank you so much. Reading this was a small moment...Thank you so much. Reading this was a small moment of grade in my day.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01248522008559614529noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4209129785647063879.post-49303295080044377932017-03-27T14:37:58.860-04:002017-03-27T14:37:58.860-04:00Thank you, Ellen! What IS it about Monday. It seem...Thank you, Ellen! What IS it about Monday. It seems I move at a snail's pace but my mind runs around like a small child at a carnival.Susan Bonifanthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05889354888091500881noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4209129785647063879.post-17178344385901180182017-03-27T14:36:39.604-04:002017-03-27T14:36:39.604-04:00It's amazing to me that with all we've bee...It's amazing to me that with all we've been told - to be aware of self-talk and sabotaging ourselves - we still have to keep it in check. But we have to, or those inner critics will get loose and wreak havoc. Susan Bonifanthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05889354888091500881noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4209129785647063879.post-72051313789979200062017-03-27T14:34:53.458-04:002017-03-27T14:34:53.458-04:00It is a killer, Leanne. And it's a painful dea...It is a killer, Leanne. And it's a painful death. We miss so much that matters when we look for how to do things better all the time. I loved learning that more than anything, I think. Susan Bonifanthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05889354888091500881noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4209129785647063879.post-52956691468533811202017-03-27T13:25:21.452-04:002017-03-27T13:25:21.452-04:00Thank you for these wonderful words of wisdom on t...Thank you for these wonderful words of wisdom on this Monday morning. I always think that Mondays are the day to re-set. This words are very helpful. Ellen Dolgenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00677166084142148843noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4209129785647063879.post-81940032552165928202017-03-27T11:33:24.927-04:002017-03-27T11:33:24.927-04:00Yes life is difficult enough without putting more ...Yes life is difficult enough without putting more demands on ourself! Critics, ourself and others are not the last word! Haraleehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03263065017109894464noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4209129785647063879.post-22778627879230259022017-03-27T09:46:07.203-04:002017-03-27T09:46:07.203-04:00This describes so many of the lessons I've lea...This describes so many of the lessons I've learned over the last few years Susan. I think finally realizing that perfection is not the be all and end all was the biggest eye-opener. Perfectionism is a killer.Leannehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05623420015695351280noreply@blogger.com